I feel like maybe I have been a complainer, and have been a little negative about this. (Not intentionally, of course!) I am trying my best to be positive- that is what I want to do on this blog, and that is what I want to do in my own life. Don't get me wrong, I still cry, and sometimes feel sorry for myself, but it helps to think each day of things I am grateful for, and how blessed I really am (See my last post if that sounds familiar). It also helps to have LOTS of pictures on my phone, to look at them often, and to show them to anyone who is willing to ooh and aah over her with me! haha.
Although it's hard sometimes (in my limited 2 weeks of experience...) to work full time and be a mom, I am in awe at how many women actually do it, and how much support I have received from so many people! I have had so many tell me I can do it, that it gets easier, and other positive feedback. This has helped me remember how good and kind people are, and that no matter what, people are there for you, and you are not alone.
I am grateful to have a great job and co-workers, and to know that I am appreciated. I am also grateful they all ask about Sophie, and let me show them pictures!
I am also so grateful for the wonderful family members who are taking care of my baby girl, and how they are sacrificing their time to care for her during the week. I am grateful that they love her, and I know she is in good hands! I am so grateful for so many other family members and friends who have offered to help, and know that I have people to call on when I need to.
This has also made me even more grateful for the gospel in my life; for the knowledge that I have a Heavenly Father, and Savior Jesus Christ who know me, and know what I am going through; that I am never alone. I am grateful for the power of the Priesthood, and Priesthood blessings, and the peace that they bring to me.
I am so grateful for a wonderful husband, who listens to me, and lets me cry, and always supports me. I am grateful for his love, and enjoy seeing how much he loves Sophie.
So, if you are a working mom, I'm going to pass along the message so many others have given me: You can do it! You will always miss your little one, but you will get used to it, and it gets a little easier to go every day! (Still telling myself this).
No matter if you are a stay at home mom, working mom, or whatever situation in life you are in, remember that you are not alone. There are others out there going through similar things that you are, who I'm sure are always willing to give their love and support. And you have a Heavenly Father who loves you, and wants the best for you.
And since you're reading this, I assume you want to see pictures of Sophie, too! ;)
(I've been taking pictures of her every morning before we leave, and this is one of my favorites!)
(Love her smiles!)
